Arthur and Kevin's Nellorat ([info]nellorat) wrote,
@ 2008-07-11 08:29:00
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A Social Life!
Yesterday Lise Eisenberg--who, despite peer pressure, staunchly resists the lure of LJ--came over, and we enjoyed chatting. Even though my work schedule may be intense this summer, I'm determined to have a social life. Also, the batik and tie-die clothes I've been buying on eBay are so nifty that they've gotten me to buy items that I know may or will need adjustments or hemming (minor things I can do, hand-sewing), and I wanted Lise to keep me company and maybe pin up some items.

We want to do it again, less last-minute on my part (I called her the night before) & getting started earlier in the day on her part (poor [info]womzilla was home very late from driving Lise back) but it was a lot of fun. Ironically, one topic was how much Lise wanted made-to-order clothes, in part so she wouldn't have to do the kind of sewing I was doing. Now my patterns are all in, my fabric measured, and plans made for what fabrics to get made into what, so I said I'd tell her how my Etsy people work out.

WORK: The big difference this summer is that I'm not teaching any classes, just tutoring. I find classes fulfilling but tiring, and I'm happy with this set-up. Now I have somewhat fewer than 40 hours/week, but that's fine with me, as everyone expects my workload to increase over the summer. I also have two students in Long Island on my own, whom I see on Monday, one of my two days off.

HEALTH: My blood sugar is definitely better. I am eating better, and I'm working up to regular treadmilling--[info]supergee has been walking for a long time (two years? three?) and [info]womzilla is walking, so I need to join the crowd! So far it's been just a few days of gardening or treadmilling, but I hope to work up to permanently treadmilling no matter what.

I also need to work on my schedule. Usually dinner is late enough that if I don't need a snack before bed, but if I don't have one, I often wake up hypoglycemic around 2:00-5:00 a.m. Have a small snack anyway? A bigger dinner--or a smaller one? For now, I'm trying for an earlier dinner and a small snack.

However, I do have much more energy than I did in the Winter and Spring. Part of this is seasonal, but it's largely health, I think.

Mood: chipper


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[info]sarah_ovenall
2008-07-11 11:09 pm UTC (link)
Did you see that Miss Manners did a column on how to introduce a triad to conservative relatives at a wedding?
http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/columnists/advice/chi-miss-manners-judith-martin-0jul10,1,192077.column

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[info]nellorat
2008-07-12 12:51 am UTC (link)
Thanks! I had not seen this.

I like the approach of saying, "My sister's family." A lot of people, such as Supergee's NA friends, assume at first that Womzilla is Supergee's brother.

And those who want to know can ask further questions. At eldersib's marriage to Math Guy, we three didn't act differently but didn't publicly announce our relationship. Afterwards, Math Guy's conservative, elderly aunt asked him what our relationship was.

MG: "They share a house and are very close friends."
Auth: "Yes, but are they a menage a trois?
MG: Yes, yes they are.

Math Guy told me about this, and I asked him if he had been embarrassed. "Why?" he said. "It's not my menage a trois." Very cool all around.

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[info]sarah_ovenall
2008-07-12 01:52 am UTC (link)
That is a great story. It reminds me of the time years ago Georg and I were visiting his old friend Pru, and met Pru's 93-year-old Aunt Florence. Aunt Florence knew Georg but had never met me before. Aunt Florence established that Georg was living in Durham now, and then asked where I lived. We both hemmed and hawed until Pru blurted out "They're shacked up!" Aunt Florence replied, "Hmph. Good way to save money."

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