Arthur and Kevin's Nellorat ([info]nellorat) wrote,
@ 2008-04-06 08:50:00
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Death: Sherry Britton
I seem to be a lot better at mourning rats than at mourning people, at least casual friends. Sherry Britton has been important to me, but we were out of touch, and now she's died.

Sherry was a student of mine at Gotham Writer's Workshop because she wanted to write her memoirs. Still perfectly sharp at 82, she certainly had a life to write about: she left an abusive fake marriage at 14 to become a burlesque star, meeting many of the famous people in her day and even showing up on the legitimate stage and later TV.

I helped her write some sample chapters and a proposal; the market for memoirs is tough now, and I don't think what she wrote is salable, but it is far better than what she would have written without my instruction, which is all I promised. She said she found the process of writing fascinating, and that was good, too.

Most of all, she was a warm, loving person (though fearful in her petite wrath!) and we got to be friends. I'm not actually sure how we drifted apart--I know that after her ms. was turned down a couple of places we both lost heart in the project, and I intended to come by just to socialize, but that never happened.

Eighty-nine is a good, long life, but I think she's be pissed off that she didn't quite make it to 90. On the other hand, she'd be happy to know she got an obituary in the NY Times.

I've met some really wonderful people. It sukks when they die.

Mood: otherwise cheerful


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[info]celestialabyss
2008-04-06 10:19 pm UTC (link)
Sorry to hear this.

Something like over 15 or so years ago, it was brought to my attention that a fellow I was critiquing his short story science fiction for, had died. Strange mental space: I'd never met him, and I was indeed tardy in responding to his last request for critiquing, in part because in just enough aspects it was lacking..., and I hadn't quite figured out how to respond diplomatically. When I learned he'd died, a part of me really decided this whole issue lacked appropriate closure, and I've always not been quite at peace about this.

So anyhow, even if this situation doesn't mirrow yours, nellorat, I send what empathy I can.

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[info]nigelpuggle
2008-04-07 12:59 am UTC (link)
That's so rough. Perhaps instead of feeling any guilt for not keeping up with Sherry, this is the occasion to prompt all of us (especially me) to get in touch with people we think about but don't get around to contacting.

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